How I knew I’d found my human

In honour of Valentine's Day, I'm sharing another soppy story. Based on ads on Facebook and elsewhere, it seems many people want to know how you've found the person you're going to marry. I knew because my sweet bunny bestie knew. [WARNING: Story contains pet death]

Accept offers of help

For some reason, I'm shy to ask for help with my wedding. I lucked out by having a craft group who listened to me being excited to marry Hardus, and then offered to help. When people do this, you should accept their help. But is it okay to accept help from non-guests?

Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Yuletide, or just a break from your colleagues, I hope you have joyous end of the year. I'm also taking a break from my blog posts and will start my regular posts again January 2018.

Steal the venue

I don’t know what it’s like where you live, but in Joburg a lot of small to medium geek conventions have something in common – the venue. There’s also some overlap in venues for the two big Gauteng boffer larps (MEAD Legends and Tales of Teana). You could do a lot of work to find a venue that’s uniquely yours, or you could follow the common sense approach.

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